From eric, 12-May-2012 Honour thy mother.
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> > > > >It was late 1945 or early 46, I can't be sure, but it's a night I shall never forget, can never forget. My mother said to me, "Allans mother wants to know if you'll stay with him at her house tonight for a couple of hours while she goes to the pictures? Of course I said yes, Allan was one of my best friends only lived a couple of doors away, and, being an only child, had more toys and games than those of us from large families, which in those days meant most of us. So, about six o clock, I was ready to go, but first, a typical warning from, "Mam". She who must be obeyed - - or else. "I want you home here by nine o clock and no later". "Allright", I said. Now 1930'S/ 40's working class Yorkshire Mam's were a special, even fearsome breed, you did not, EVER, question them or debate with them. Amen. As for answering back, "You'd better not lad, by gum you'd better not". So we didn't, they had an uncanny knack of aallways being right anyway, so why argue? They also had an amazing aim with a sweeping brush, you had to be quick and nimble on your feet to outrun, or duck, a 1940'S sweeping brush wielded by an angry Mam with dinners to make floors to sweep and ironing to do with an old fashioned iron warmed up on a coal fire, not pleasant in mid summer. So, her voice still ringing in my ears, I shot off to Allan's for what would prove to be the most fatefull night of my life. We soon settled down to the usual 1940'S lads games, swapping comics, "Seen that, got that, Oh ere's one I v'e not got, swap yer? Followed by lots of talking and then games of ludo, snakes and ladders and a few card tricks that Allan knew. Time passed as quickly as it always did when you were a kid and having an enjoyable time, and,as I glanced at the clock, saw the hand a couple of minutes from the nine. Time had flown. "I'll ave to go now Allan", I said, "Mi Mam said I ave to be ome by nine o clock". Allan said , "Can't you stay just a BIT longer?" then dissapeared for a minute, when he came back he had in his hands something new and shiny and colourful and wonderful. It was a chemistry set . All pretty colours and wrapped up in shiny plastic. It was a Christmas present that Allan hadn't yet opened, and I can tell yout that in 1940S' Bradford, you saw little shine or colour even in normal times, and we had only just left blackouts behind. Oh it was tempting, so much so that my left foot moved, all by itself I swear, up onto the next step. But then something remarkable happened. From the pit of my stomach, the part that some call, "The Soul", came a voice, a very firm voice saying, "I WANT YOU HOME HERE BY NINE O CLOCK". That was it, down came the defiant foot that seemed to have acted on an entirely different command, and I said,"No I can't, I ave to be ome by nine "." OK" said Allan, "see you tomorrow". As I dissapeared into the thick swirling pea soup West Bowling fog .But Allan wasn't to see me tomorrow".
> Next morning, Sunday, I got up about ten, my mothet was in the living room and was pacing up and down looking very serious about something."Flippin eck" I thought, "What have I done this time?" Then she spoke, in a voice that had me worrying and wondering. "Was Allan allright when you left him last night? she asked. "Course he was", I answered, "Why?" She said nothing, just paced a around a bit more. I was really worried now, although I had no idea what about. Then she spoke, words I remember as if if it was this morning. "Allans in hospital, he's very poorly, he's been badly burned. Then of course I remembered the chemistry set. Allan died late that night, a good friend, a really nice quiet kid that all the grown ups liked. His mother, there was never a father in his life that I knew of and it was never spoken of, was a lady,also greatly respected by all the neighbours, particularly my mother who was always singing her praises. I always had to be on my best behaviour when I went to Allans house,she made sure of that. What a terrible price she paid for one mistake, if it can even be called that. I still feel for her after all these many years. But her pain was one my mother also knew well. As did, and still do I. Only months before her son, my younger brother also called Allan, had been killed in an accident in a small yard right at the back of Allan's house. He was just four years old, and Ive never forgotten him, nnor do I want to, the pain is my assurance that in some way my brother is still with me. I have also wondered, and many many many times, what would have happened if I had gone back into Allans house? Would I have helped him put out the flames and saved his life? Or would I have perished in them with h my friend? There are no answers. > > > > > > > > > > > > Eldy - it's easy, it's free - www.eldy.eu
> > > > >It was late 1945 or early 46, I can't be sure, but it's a night I shall never forget, can never forget. My mother said to me, "Allans mother wants to know if you'll stay with him at her house tonight for a couple of hours while she goes to the pictures? Of course I said yes, Allan was one of my best friends only lived a couple of doors away, and, being an only child, had more toys and games than those of us from large families, which in those days meant most of us. So, about six o clock, I was ready to go, but first, a typical warning from, "Mam". She who must be obeyed - - or else. "I want you home here by nine o clock and no later". "Allright", I said. Now 1930'S/ 40's working class Yorkshire Mam's were a special, even fearsome breed, you did not, EVER, question them or debate with them. Amen. As for answering back, "You'd better not lad, by gum you'd better not". So we didn't, they had an uncanny knack of aallways being right anyway, so why argue? They also had an amazing aim with a sweeping brush, you had to be quick and nimble on your feet to outrun, or duck, a 1940'S sweeping brush wielded by an angry Mam with dinners to make floors to sweep and ironing to do with an old fashioned iron warmed up on a coal fire, not pleasant in mid summer. So, her voice still ringing in my ears, I shot off to Allan's for what would prove to be the most fatefull night of my life. We soon settled down to the usual 1940'S lads games, swapping comics, "Seen that, got that, Oh ere's one I v'e not got, swap yer? Followed by lots of talking and then games of ludo, snakes and ladders and a few card tricks that Allan knew. Time passed as quickly as it always did when you were a kid and having an enjoyable time, and,as I glanced at the clock, saw the hand a couple of minutes from the nine. Time had flown. "I'll ave to go now Allan", I said, "Mi Mam said I ave to be ome by nine o clock". Allan said , "Can't you stay just a BIT longer?" then dissapeared for a minute, when he came back he had in his hands something new and shiny and colourful and wonderful. It was a chemistry set . All pretty colours and wrapped up in shiny plastic. It was a Christmas present that Allan hadn't yet opened, and I can tell yout that in 1940S' Bradford, you saw little shine or colour even in normal times, and we had only just left blackouts behind. Oh it was tempting, so much so that my left foot moved, all by itself I swear, up onto the next step. But then something remarkable happened. From the pit of my stomach, the part that some call, "The Soul", came a voice, a very firm voice saying, "I WANT YOU HOME HERE BY NINE O CLOCK". That was it, down came the defiant foot that seemed to have acted on an entirely different command, and I said,"No I can't, I ave to be ome by nine "." OK" said Allan, "see you tomorrow". As I dissapeared into the thick swirling pea soup West Bowling fog .But Allan wasn't to see me tomorrow".
> Next morning, Sunday, I got up about ten, my mothet was in the living room and was pacing up and down looking very serious about something."Flippin eck" I thought, "What have I done this time?" Then she spoke, in a voice that had me worrying and wondering. "Was Allan allright when you left him last night? she asked. "Course he was", I answered, "Why?" She said nothing, just paced a around a bit more. I was really worried now, although I had no idea what about. Then she spoke, words I remember as if if it was this morning. "Allans in hospital, he's very poorly, he's been badly burned. Then of course I remembered the chemistry set. Allan died late that night, a good friend, a really nice quiet kid that all the grown ups liked. His mother, there was never a father in his life that I knew of and it was never spoken of, was a lady,also greatly respected by all the neighbours, particularly my mother who was always singing her praises. I always had to be on my best behaviour when I went to Allans house,she made sure of that. What a terrible price she paid for one mistake, if it can even be called that. I still feel for her after all these many years. But her pain was one my mother also knew well. As did, and still do I. Only months before her son, my younger brother also called Allan, had been killed in an accident in a small yard right at the back of Allan's house. He was just four years old, and Ive never forgotten him, nnor do I want to, the pain is my assurance that in some way my brother is still with me. I have also wondered, and many many many times, what would have happened if I had gone back into Allans house? Would I have helped him put out the flames and saved his life? Or would I have perished in them with h my friend? There are no answers. > > > > > > > > > > > > Eldy - it's easy, it's free - www.eldy.eu